Success is often built on a reflex habit of saying yes to opportunities or requests that come our way.
But if you say yes and can’t follow through because you don’t have the time then you inevitably let the person down.
Many businesses agree to do extra work for their customers in order to be perceived as giving extra value, however, they often don’t deliver these extra’s in a timely fashion and often forget to do the extra work altogether.
Learning to say ‘no’ is an important step to ensuring you don’t overcommit, but it’s easier said than done.
If you struggle with this, here’s five tips to help you say no with more confidence:
- Back-of-the-envelope pros and cons.
Making a decision with information in front of you is always easier. By simply writing down the pros and cons of either a yes or no decision enables you to clearly see the implications of your decision.
- Actions speak louder than words.
It is important that your actions are consistent with your words. If you are constantly answering yes to things and not following through because you really should have said no, then you will find yourself with more challenges that if you simply said no in the first place. Set yourself some clear rules and boundaries and stick to them.
- If you’re not 100 per cent committed to your answer, then ask for time.
Often we are so busy that we are not 100 per cent present when saying yes or no. If you are unsure whether to answer yes or no to a request then it is reasonable to ask for some time to rationalise your decision. You might use this time to check your schedule or chat with your team before committing to an outcome.
- Calculate the ROI.
For example, you may have purchased a new piece of office furniture that need assembling. This may take you 1.5 hours to complete. If your hourly rate is $100 then your investment in building the new piece of furniture is $150.
This task could be done by someone else within your team or perhaps you may have been able to get a handy man to come and assember the furniture for between $30 – $40 per hour saving you time and money. This simple back-of-the-envelope calculation will make the decision easy.
- Share your reason for saying no.
Many of the people you start saying no to may not be used to this answer from you. They may feel rejected and this may strain the relationship. By simply sharing your reason for saying no (you simply have too much on, can’t free up enough budget at the moment, etc.) you will generally get a more positive response and maintain strong working relationships.