Top 5 things a man needs in a relationship

The gap between men and women is getting smaller as the decades go by. The two genders seem to have better communication and to be closer to one another, not only in terms of a romantic relationship, but as a whole system. We interact more with people of the opposite sex on several occasions from school to adult life. Our daily communication helps us understand better the other person and further understand ourselves.

However, men’s role in society is still complex and they tend to missout what is their role nowadays. Women need to sense those things the other sex needs. Some things seem to make men happy and they often seek a relationship.

What are these things they are in so much need of?

1. Feeling like a hero
   A vital need of every man based on the hunter’s archetype is to feel like a hero. Have you ever wondered why there are so many movies with men heroes? It is because men enjoy this feeling that they have the superiority to save others. A familiar and safe environment to fulfill this need is the relationship. Whether you are in a marriage or a romantic relationship, you have to provide your partner with the sense they did something rare and challenging that you wouldn’t be able to accomplish by yourself. If it is critical, praise them a little more to underline their importance in your life and they will adore you.
2. Physical connection
   Feeling attracted by your partner is of great importance for both sexes. However, men tend to focus on that area. Women have a role in seducing men and this holds its roots long before you can imagine. It is a common misunderstanding that man is the hunter in the erotic game. Men may have a more energetic and raw role in this, but the women do the first step. They make themselves more attractive to seduce men. This is where the whole beauty industry is based on. Men expect this to be taken care of by their partner, sometimes without them even realizing it. Seduction is the appetizer for a successful sex life, which is so vital for a couple.
3. Space
   Free time is significant for men. We often enter relationships hoping to fill in the gaps in our lives. The role of a relationship, however, is not that. Men act more independently and they do not want women to deprive them of their freedom. They need privacy that women have to respect and provide. Elsewhere, they act without taking into account one of the valuable needs of a guy. They need to spend time with their friends and watch football once in a while. You may have fun together, and we don’t underestimate the activities you share as a couple, but space is also essential. As simple as it may sound, many relationships have reached an end because women did not take this seriously.

   

4. Have your own life
   Our society has placed man to be the person who brings money to the family, while women are more interested in finding a proper mate to live their lives with. Thankfully, things have changed over the last years and women have started to chase their dreams and broaden their horizons beyond the chase of the perfect groom. Men have adjusted to the new reality and they have accepted it pretty well. In fact, they like to see women being able to take care of themselves. This way they don’t feel that women are around them because they don’t have another choice. On the other hand, they are independent and they only stick with their partner because they chose to.
5. Companionship
   We start relationships to connect and share time with others. It is an essential need for both genders and it includes all of the emotional intimacy we are looking for. Men have become more open to revealing the vulnerable side of their personality, and they are ok with showing they need friendship along with other things in a relationship. Affection between the couple is the golden rule for men and women. A few months after the beginning of a relationship, the need for everyday activities, that will let the couple bond further, will show up. Give your beloved ones the love they need and they will never leave your side.

Written by Anna Siampani.